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Shæ: "this is a big jet plane, it's got a jet on it!"
Sean: "I don't think that would fly in real life"
Shæ: "It would! It has a handle to help you fly it!!"


Doing this re #introduction post for newcomers here 😊

Hi! I'm Becky! 🤗

I draw Helicopter Death (see my profile pic), who's been my pet character since grade 3, I love to #paint, I sometimes write #essays when I think of them and I love doing #research, especially on #bipolar but also on other topics which cross my mind.

I live with bipolar and I think #adhd, so I post about that a lot, and other mental health things. I also post a lot about my kids and random things I think are cool or interesting. Likely sometimes politics. Maybe some lgbtq+ (I'm bi and demi)...

I know things about #memory and #psychopathology too, as those are very interesting areas for me and I've done seminars when I was in undergrad (plus I started grad school in clinical psychology but I never finished)

Adjacently, I'm married to @silverwizard so sometimes I talk about tech stuff too, if a topic comes up between us that sits with me

Nice to meet you all 😊



I adore music and play it constanty to survive

But Shæ is very sensitive to noise so I play it low most of the time.... but importantly, he doesn't dance much or sing along much

So yesterday when he started swaying to music on a patio restaurant I took notes

I played him Jazz today. He said he loves it! I think he likes Jazz!! More music I can play for him!!

Ro is the opposite, he loves music



I am doing my best to follow everyone as fast as possible, and my instance still isn't getting crushed, I feel left out

in reply to silverwizard

I don't really have a way to measure the real time cpu allocation in the cloud VM that I used but on a test computer under my desk it worked on a dual core 2.33ghz xeon from 2008 pretty ok. (tested back in 2019)


My kid said today

"Mummy, I want us to make cookies"

Well, needless to say, there was no arm bending about it

...
But now I have soo many cookies and I need to stop eating them



I wonder how many days until the banks step in and take the asset being burned down
in reply to Hypolite Petovan

The best part is that his girlfriend left him and now the place he goes for fun is bad, and he went to Halloween with his mom


My "automatically follow back" setup has saved me so much time these last few days
in reply to silverwizard

lol I just followed you here after coming across you on the birbsite. Hope you don't mind!
in reply to Eris Renée

That's literally what I was talking about! It meant I didn't need to do work to follow you back!

I'm really excited to meet you! And I love how active the Fediverse has been!



soundcloud.com/user-310458959/…
I don't normally like class anti-solidarity - but this song is exactly what I want out of folk other than that, the exact kind of rhythm - something you can be a crew to

This recording is hell - but this song always makes me feel youtube.com/watch?v=ud6uhsHO5i…



I just bought a sea shanty from @The Corodon who turned around a sea shanty in under a day, and put cool RPG artifacts in it. And uh - it's amazing! I'll hopefully have a recording up soon!

But - uh - holy shit!

in reply to silverwizard

I've sung through it once to the music, it's so good 😶😆😆


My 3yo is asleep
My wife is at the store
My 1yo found a plate he could smash
My wife moved the broom to a room where I couldn't find it

Needless to say, my barely speaking 1yo now knows the word fuck

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silverwizard

It's OK

My 3yo had a swearing phase, but he got bored when we didn't get annoyed

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silverwizard

That one's pretty dang cute

Swearing in French got me through middle school, so it's good to learn!



Today I learned that a friend of mine in the US had their boss ask them "Did you consult your Canadian Tech Friend?" when they were out of ideas

And that's the greatest professional designation I've ever gotten

in reply to silverwizard

depending on how your D20 rolls, your Canadian Tech Friend can become a Canadian Tech Fiend


For the last few month my mother in law has taken my kids to the park for 3h to give me opportunities to do other things

Most days I clean frantically in that time

Today I have an appointment an hour and 15min later but right now I feel like doing absolutely nothing

So I texted my partner: "Gosh I feel like just not being productive"

His response: "You can be"

Just a gentle reminders for others like me in the world.....

You can... just not be productive sometimes.... it's okay.... you deserve rest sometimes too ❤️

in reply to Becky

Maybe I can give you my wife's mobile number and you can tell her that? She won't listen to me :)
in reply to Jonathan

I honestly think it's really important to rest but hard to dismantle the messaging from society that we must constantly go. I hope your wife gets rest tho!! She deserves it!!
in reply to Becky

think working from home during the pandemic was the worst thing for her. She has such a hard time disconnecting from work when it is always right there. Now she works a "hybrid" schedule, which I think is the worst of both worlds for her. As someone who has worked from home for 25 years, I'm pretty good at disconnecting.
in reply to Jonathan

My partner is in the same mood: "I can't believe you, you said you love me". 🤷‍♂️


I officially think I can list as my job qualifications:
1) Constantly terrified of realistic threats
2) good at regex
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silverwizard

Oh, I 100% think these are easily my most marketable skills quite seriously.

Being terrified of realistic things is INCREDIBLY hard. And a solid regex can save millions of dollars for the right company.

I once found a bug we'd introduced 6 months ago by going through 1.5 TB of logs and constructing useful graphs, using nothing by a t2.large and grep/guplot.



I love making playdough with the kids, because you can do any colour trivially (at least with the food colouring we have 😅) and it makes so much! We were out of cream of tartar but the internet tells me vinegar works well in replacement
2 bowls of playdough - bright purple and green


My Burning Wheel plot arcs have now hit the point of 29 NPCs that need to share spotlight. There are 6 cliques, only 12 of them have beliefs written - but the other 17 have a lot of important narrative that need to engage.

It's a complete mess, toooo many people to manage



Will anyone accept money to write me a short sea shanty?

It has to be *singable*

reshared this

in reply to silverwizard

I have 3 commissioned shanties in the pipeline, so uh, sorry

If you want to make sea shanties for money in the future please put them on this thread but I will probably not be buying *today*

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silverwizard

Cool! Thanks so much! I've been enjoying the input.

I feel bad for how deeply you've dived into the wiki!



How do people figure out what new people to follow on here.... at this point I've relied solely on
-recommendations from @silverwizard
-people who followed me
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Becky
Might participate anyway tho 😊, thanks!
in reply to Becky

"they" say you can follow your local timeline and also follow hashtags you are interested in and check out folks who make posts that interest you. That's usually how I do it.
in reply to Jonathan

I should figure out following hashtags! That's a great idea 😊, thanks!
in reply to Becky

On this page: convenient.email/search?tag=ph… click either the "Follow" link (on vier) or the Plus button (on frio).
in reply to Hypolite Petovan

Thanks! Can I just switch out the word photography for other cool topics too?
in reply to Becky

Have you never used hashtags links before? It's a straightforward way of finding related content, however it requires people to have some discipline tagging their posts.
in reply to Hypolite Petovan

No, but I don't have a lot on my feed with tags
in reply to Jonathan

Part of it (a large part) is that she's on an instance of 4 people).

She's also on friendica where we have Community timeline and various forms of your follows. But her Community tab is all hackers because her instance is mostly me.

in reply to silverwizard

Ha! Yeah, for the Local timeline to work well, you need to find an instance that shares some of your passions. Luckily, it seems to be easy enough to change your "home" instance. And this site helps pick one:

instances.social/

in reply to Jonathan

I appreciate that! Although, I am inclined to stay where I am... @silverwizard is my partner so I trust him as my admin more than anyone :)
in reply to Becky

ha! Good point 😀 Luckily, there are plenty of ways to find interesting content on Mastodon


youtube.com/watch?v=fXGjwf6zUW…

This video is a horrible video where someone is mean to Postel and 100% wrong. It is bad



I don't get the concept of the Battlestation pic

Though I am a Minimum Viable Computer type for local usage. Gotta make sure your exocortex is distributed.

Though Post Keyboard!



With the current YouTube weirdness I might need to resume work on my YouTube frontend


I have a very technical feed

I don't consider myself to know nothing, but nothing makes me feel like I know nothing more than being surrounded by technicality 😂

I find this amusing, I mpre so find it super cool! I do not feel sad about it!!





Be careful about what you see in your kid's candy, you never know what horrible things people sneak in them. I saw a mars bar and it was made with child slavery

(Nitter addon enabled: Twitter links via https://nitter.net)



Second assignment marks are out. (Looking at the calendar, I'm starting to think there won't be an assignment 4.)
First midterm (of two) is written but marks aren't out yet.

If I get a weighted average of 43.9% on the coursework for the rest of the term I get to graduate on the Dean's Honour List.

in reply to Dave

(For clarity, that's the number to meet _or exceed_.)

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silverwizard
Yeah, two clauses, likely independent though


Thinking about this because it feels like a thing that I should communicate.... but I can get pretty bad social anxiety so if I like your post but don't respond, it could very well be because I'm panicking in one way or another, but often about "being too much"....
in reply to Becky

Not exactly sure where this expectation of yours comes from, but nobody I know expects people to comment after they liked a post.

A naked like is a perfectly fine social media reaction, nobody I know would take ombrage if a comment doesn’t follow. Sure, a comment is nice, but not everybody has something relevant to add and it’s fine.

in reply to Hypolite Petovan

Thanks!

I think that tells me all this is all in my head. I think I just worry a lot on social media, more so than in real life even




Giving out these tubs of cotton candy this year so as not to use chocolate. Hope the kiddos love it.... my dream is to be the house in the neighborhood with the best candy and Sean's is to have big sized candy that's he feels it's a cool thing as part of the infosec community

40 tubs of different flavoured cotton candy

in reply to Becky

I didn't want to say anything not to ruin your moment, but I was pretty sure 40 tubs would be a little light. I guess your plans for neighborhood candy domination needs some refining for next year.


Dr. Who reunion episode parody staring all the British PMs from this year

Call it The Five Doctors or something


in reply to silverwizard

From the Wikipedia page:

Rishi Sunak is a British politician who has served as Prime Minister of the United Kingdom since 25 October 2022


I thought Wikipedia was using the present for currently serving officials, only using the past tense when they leave office, so I briefly thought his tenure was already over.

in reply to Hypolite Petovan

I am glad that Wikipedia has all British PMs as permanently in the past tense from now on

Or, at least, I assume



I found out today that there's an Oracle Linux
I went to the webpage ,and a blocking Cookie Consent Banner, and I decline, and I get "We are processing your request, this could take up to a few minutes to process."

WTF

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silverwizard
Yeah - apparently it's a wannabe CentOS - which makes sense. But it's the root of the MySQL docker container, which I am sad I need to touch it.


It's unfair the one of the greatest makers of consumer grade computing is Microsoft
in reply to silverwizard

Microsoft has for a long time been a company whose software arm made the world a better place by keeping senior management from pushing their hardware arm into bad decisions.
in reply to Dave

But that's not true! TPMs and other crap leak into their hardware all the time. Proprietary drivers and other crap do too!

It means that their hardware is always slowly reclaimed.

Or the fucking Microsoft Mouse, the greatest mouse ever made



Finally all set up for Halloween and these pumpkins are done! Only took me an hour and a half 😅

One pic of a car, one of a spider web with a dangling spider beside, one of a pumpkin and the last is a silhouette of a cat's face

in reply to Becky

I love these :pumpkin_laugh:​ especially the pumpkin one


I wonder if new shoes would help my back issues

Though I also just need to unfuck my back from two kids



My follow policy seems to be "follow everyone who might be interesting"

I'm gonna have DB size issues again...

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silverwizard

I'm not even following back, I'm proactively following

But I also am pretty OK with a *massive* feed, and want more fediverse side people